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Jack Stapleton's avatar

Your posting struck a number of chords with me. The family metaphor does seem to be universal, at least among Protestant congregations. I guess that's why Edwin Friedman's Family Systems approach gained such popularity in the 1980s and 90s. But your reflections called to mind a more recent assessment of the family metaphor I found in "Called to Community," a selection of writings from Plough Books. The book is designed for small group study with 52 topics for a year's curriculum. In the fifth week ("Brothers, Sisters") an excerpt from Hal Miller compares and contrasts the metaphors of Body and Family in ways you might find interesting!

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Sarah Carling Polk's avatar

Interesting, many of the struggling congregations I see are the ones that have become so obsessed with bringing new people in and appealing to the stranger, that they forgot to keep the home fires burning and when they do drag some warm body in off the street, there's nothing to really welcome them into. Of course these congregations will also tell you that they are family, but it seems to be the echo of a family rather than the real thing.

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